In the 1960s, the United States declared War on Poverty. Since then, we have declared War on Drugs, War on Cancer, War on Terrorism and War on Alzheimers. In these wars, we name enemies, sympathize with the victims, celebrate the survivors and mourn those who have lost their battles.
War talk is everywhere. At work, we rally the troops, bullet point ideas, shoot each other emails, fill our arsenals with weapons and create war rooms to deal with the fall-out when things blow up. When we win, we say, “We killed!” When we are defeated, we say, “We were slaughtered!” We are willing to lose battles in order to win wars.
In information technology, we assess threats and respond to cyber attacks. We also create demilitarization zones (DMZs). DMZs sit outside of the company’s internal network, and exist solely to communicate and invite connections with external parties in a way that is safe, protected and military free.
Anthropologists say that language reflects the values of culture. In our battle-laden, and battle-weary culture, I think we need more DMZs, neutral areas where it is safe to drop our war-like stances to promote communicating and making connections.
To have a more peaceful world, and more sane workplaces, let’s embrace metaphors and language that reflect values of equality, freedom and democracy. These metaphors are emerging as we engage employees, provide transparency of information, promote diversity of thought, create cross-functional collaborations and form representative governance. Let’s declare War on War talk, and replace it with Peace talk to promote understanding and compassion in place of judgement and aggression.
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crews up, s/he is not expected to own up to it or apologize. Instead, we are supposed to work around, cover up or pretend that the boss is never wrong. When employees dare to point out their boss’ mistakes, we call that “insubordination,” and subject them to disciplinary action.